You know, the last year or two (especially now that I'm over 50) I have had some clarity over the past decades of my life. I have decided that there were a few things I would have done differently. Let's talk about some of them. Maybe you'll consider talking them over with kids/grandkids, helping them gain insight perhaps, rather than learning it the “hard way,” going through unnecessary trials and pain. So, here goes! Would have spent more time with aunts, uncles and cou